Episode 12

No Means Not Now

Published on: 12th December, 2022

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No=rejection.

Growing up I was told no so many times.

Frustrated, irritated, I didn't understand why I couldn't have designer jeans.

Bartering didn't always work.

Being told they were too much funny & the local K-Mart offered quality jeans at a much lower price, we would have to shop there.

This junior high girl who hung out with rich girls didn't want to hear that.

Taking matters into my own hands, I figured out that the only way to get these jeans was to steal them...not a great choice & I ended up not doing it for me...foolish to say the least.

Realizing that my 13 year old self was tired of being told no, I declared that when. I had kids, they were getting designer clothes...and they did.

Instead of focusing on there not being enough, my husband & I set aside a dollar amount for clothes.

Each child had $250 to spend on school clothes. 

What they decided to buy with that money, was their choice.

Shop the clearance rocks or invest in $200 jeans, you get to decide but once the money is gone, it's gone. 

Money strategy 101.

My kids now shop at thrift stores & clearance racks realizing that name brands with tags are here.

Instead of saying no, look for a strategic way to get what you want so you can say yes.

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intro/outer music "IDM" by Christa Lily

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I Date Money
Rebuild financial stability after divorce—rewrite your money story with clarity and confidence.
Welcome to iDateMoney®, the podcast where divorced mompreneurs learn how to rebuild financial stability after divorce without spreadsheets, shame, or second-guessing every decision.

Hosted by Lisa Drennon—Wealth Activator, money strategist, and creator of the Money Multiplier System— this show is where clarity meets confidence.

Each week, Lisa shares raw stories, practical strategies, and spiritual insights to help you:

Release fear and guilt around money so you feel safe spending again.

Create steady income and financial security—even if your business feels unpredictable.

Confidently pay yourself, cover taxes, and provide stability for your kids.

Rewrite your money story so you can step into your role as a secure, empowered mom.

This isn’t your accountant’s podcast. It’s real talk for women ready to stop feeling broke, build true stability, and finally trust themselves with money.

Because it doesn’t matter how much you have—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸

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Lisa Drennon

Lisa Drennon, Wealth Activator & founder of iDateMoney® has been in the finance & insurance industry since 1987. Her unconventional Money Multiplier System transformed her money relationship to become a self-made millionaire, retire 2 ½ years early, pay $100K of debt in 6 months, & relocate to her beachfront dream home.