Episode 328

Stop Avoiding Your Finances: The Real Reason You're Dipping Into Savings & Owing Taxes

Published on: 17th July, 2025

In this raw and powerful episode of I Date Money®, Lisa Drennon opens up about the emotional toll of hiding from financial truth. From journal reflections to a soul-stirring mentorship call, Lisa shares her personal experience of avoiding financial pain, battling shame, and breaking the cycle of silent suffering. If you’ve ever dipped into your emergency fund for something not an emergency, or delayed paying taxes out of fear, this episode is a wake-up call—and a permission slip.

Lisa walks you through the emotional layers of avoidance, how trauma shows up in money habits, and why numbness is not laziness—it’s protection. You’ll hear how one client paid off $50K in tax debt and turned that into a revenue stream, and how YOU can take your first small but mighty step toward financial dignity and clarity. This is for the woman who's tired of feeling behind—and ready to reclaim her power. ⚡


🧠 Topics Discussed:

  • What an emergency fund is and is not
  • Why entrepreneurs fall behind on taxes (and what to do about it)
  • The hidden trauma response behind financial avoidance
  • Why we choose numb over shame—and how to break that habit
  • How Lisa helped her client tackle $50K in tax debt without panic
  • How accountability and breathwork shift your nervous system
  • How to pay yourself first—and what that really means
  • A gentle call to reclaim your financial power, without shame

💥 Quote to Remember:


“Avoidance is a trauma response. It’s your nervous system choosing numb over shame. But you don’t need to be perfect—you need to be powerful.” – Lisa Drennon



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I Date Money
iDateMoney® helps mompreneurs manage cash flow, ditch debt, and build true wealth—without shame. Hosted by Wealth Activator Lisa Drennon, creator of the Money Multiplier System. It’s not what you make—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸
iDateMoney® Where Women Date Their Finances and Build Wealth—Without Shame.
They’ll tell you to hustle harder. Save more. Budget better. But here’s the truth: It doesn’t matter how much money you have—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸

Welcome to iDateMoney®, the podcast that helps mompreneurs take back control of their finances with clarity, strategy, and soul. Hosted by Lisa Drennon—Wealth Activator, money mindset expert, and creator of the Money Multiplier System—this show is where taboo ends and true wealth begins.

Each week, you’ll get a mix of raw conversations, mindset rewrites, spiritual insights, and practical strategies to help you crush debt without budgeting shame, master cash flow in your business and personal finances, save, spend, and give with purpose, and create a wealth plan you actually love living.

This is not your accountant’s podcast. This is real-talk money coaching for women ready to multiply what they already have and step into their financial sovereignty.

You’ll hear real stories. Tangible tools. Energetic alignment.
And the occasional money rant (because let’s be honest, some things need to be said).

Tune in, shift your money story, and start dating your finances—because wealth is your birthright, and it’s time to own it.

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Lisa Drennon

Lisa Drennon, Wealth Activator & founder of I Date Money™️ has been in the finance & insurance industry since 1987. Her unconventional Money Multiplier System transformed her money relationship to become a self-made millionaire, retire 2 ½ years early, pay $100K of debt in 6 months, & relocate to her beachfront dream home.