Episode 323

Transforming Money Mindsets: A Journey to Wealth With Fanny Tristan

Published on: 1st July, 2025

In this emotionally charged episode of Lisa Drennon sits down with trauma therapist Fanny Tristan to unpack how trauma and early conditioning shape our relationship with money. They explore how emotional wounds influence financial decisions, and why understanding your personal money story is key to creating lasting wealth. From overcoming toxic productivity to releasing perfectionism and scarcity, Fanny shares her path to financial independence—and how women can stop outsourcing their power to partners, systems, or fear.

Lisa and Fanny also dive into practical financial advice for creating safety and abundance—like building a “rainy day fund” for joy, not just emergencies. If you’ve ever avoided looking at your bank account or felt paralyzed by financial decisions, this episode will hit home.

💸 It’s time to rewrite your money story and activate your wealth from the inside out.🎧

Topics Discussed

  • What trauma has to do with money behavior
  • The emotional vs logical relationship with money
  • Scarcity mindset, financial avoidance & instant gratification
  • How perfectionism blocks financial progress
  • Myths about needing a partner for financial security
  • Fanny’s story of financial rock bottom and rebirth
  • Building emotional safety around money
  • The importance of a “rainy day fund” for fun
  • Wealth activation as a form of women’s empowerment

🔥 Memorable Quote

"Have a rainy day fund for fun things." Fanny Tristan


⏱️ Episode Chapters

00:00 – Welcome to Wealth Activation

00:30 – How Money Stories Begin

02:31 – Systems & Self-Worth

05:43 – Trauma and the Nervous System's Role in Money

10:21 – The Feast-or-Famine Cycle

13:12 – Fanny’s Story: Burnout, Rebuilding, and Boundaries

16:24 – Perfectionism & Toxic Productivity

18:51 – How Emotions Drive Money Choices

21:26 – Scarcity Mindset from Childhood

24:16 – Why Women Don’t Need a Partner to Thrive

29:19 – Rainy Day Funds & Everyday Wealth Habits

Want to connect with Fanny?

Follow her on Instagram: @fannytristan_

Website: fannytristan.com


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I Date Money
iDateMoney® helps mompreneurs manage cash flow, ditch debt, and build true wealth—without shame. Hosted by Wealth Activator Lisa Drennon, creator of the Money Multiplier System. It’s not what you make—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸
Where Women Date Their Finances and Build Wealth—Without Shame.
They’ll tell you to hustle harder. Save more. Budget better. But here’s the truth: It doesn’t matter how much money you have—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸

Welcome to iDateMoney®, the podcast that helps mompreneurs take back control of their finances with clarity, strategy, and soul. Hosted by Lisa Drennon—Wealth Activator, money mindset expert, and creator of the Money Multiplier System—this show is where taboo ends and true wealth begins.

Each week, you’ll get a mix of raw conversations, mindset rewrites, spiritual insights, and practical strategies to help you crush debt without budgeting shame, master cash flow in your business and personal finances, save, spend, and give with purpose, and create a wealth plan you actually love living.

This is not your accountant’s podcast. This is real-talk money coaching for women ready to multiply what they already have and step into their financial sovereignty.

You’ll hear real stories. Tangible tools. Energetic alignment.
And the occasional money rant (because let’s be honest, some things need to be said).

Tune in, shift your money story, and start dating your finances—because wealth is your birthright, and it’s time to own it.

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Lisa Drennon

Lisa Drennon, Wealth Activator & founder of I Date Money™️ has been in the finance & insurance industry since 1987. Her unconventional Money Multiplier System transformed her money relationship to become a self-made millionaire, retire 2 ½ years early, pay $100K of debt in 6 months, & relocate to her beachfront dream home.